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Child Development - The 11 Year Old

11 year-olds*

Physical

  • restless and very energetic
  • needs lots of food, physical activity, and sleep
  • experiences more colds, flu, ear infections, etc.
  • many girls experience an early adolescent growth spurt and sexual maturation; some boys begin rapidly growing taller
  • may complain of headaches (as a result, will read only for short periods of time)

Social- Emotional

  • moody, self-absorbed, and sensitive
  • likes to challenge rules, argue, and test limits; may be cruel; sometimes physically aggressive
  • worries more about who's "in" and who's "out" than when they were younger
  • needs lots of time to talk with peers; heavy users of the phone, cell phone, instant messaging and email
  • impulsive - often talk before thinking
  • often behaves best when away from home
  • has trouble making decisions
  • needs adult empathy, humor, and sensitivity to help them cope with their rapidly changing minds and bodies
  • loves the challenge of competition
  • "saving face" is important

Language

  • enjoys arguing and debating
  • appreciates humor
  • imitates adult language

Cognitive

  • would rather learn new skills than review or improve previous work
  • becoming more adept at abstract thinking - for example, they can understand ideas such as "justice"
  • with improving reasoning skill, they can establish and modify rules and develop hypotheses
  • increasingly able to see the world from various perspectives
  • needs help with time-management and homework skills

*Yardsticks, by Chip Wood, 3rd Edition