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Child Development - The 9 Year Old

    

9 year-olds *

Physical

  • better coordinated
  • likes to push their physical limits; tires easily
  • complains about aches, pains, injuries, and hurt feelings
  • may twist hair, bite nails, or purse lips to relieve tension

Social-Emotional

  • more individualistic
  • often feels worried or anxious
  • impatient
  • often complains about fairness issues
  • critical of self and others (including adults)
  • can be sullen, moody, aloof and negative; often says "I hate it.", "It's boring.", etc.
  • likes to negotiate - this is the age of "Let's make a deal."

Language

  • loves descriptive language, word play, and new vocabulary
  • sometimes reverts to baby talk
  • enjoys exaggeration, "dirty" jokes, and graffiti

Cognitive

  • industrious and intellectually curious, but less imaginative than at eight
  • beginning to see the "bigger world", including issues of fairness and justice
  • able to manage more than one concept at a time, such as "long ago and far away"
  • has trouble understanding abstractions, or vast areas of space
  • reading to learn, instead of learning to read

* Yardsticks , Chip Wood, 3rd Edition